You’re so used to holding it all together… but who’s holding you?

You’ve carried so much on your shoulders for so long. As the eldest daughter, the first in your family, the caregiver, or the one who always figures it out, you’ve been conditioned to keep going no matter what.

Does any of this sound familiar?

You want to heal, set boundaries, and put yourself first—but you keep running into the same patterns:

You feel guilty prioritizing yourself, like you always have to be available for others.

🔹 You constantly second-guess yourself, over-explaining your decisions because you fear disappointing others.

🔹 You crave rest and ease, but your nervous system is wired for overworking and over-functioning.

🔹 You start strong with self-care, but then life gets busy, and you fall back into old habits of putting yourself last.

🔹 You struggle with feeling “too much” or “not enough”, depending on who you’re around.

🔹 You’re exhausted from being “the strong one”, but still feels hard to ask for support.

You are not alone, mi reina. This is exactly why I created Gather Circle.

What if you didn’t have to do it alone?

What if you had a community where you felt seen, supported, and understood?

What if healing didn’t feel like another thing on your to-do list, but instead, a nurturing practice that fits into your life with ease?

Welcome to Gather Circle

I can’t wait to welcome you inside

A sacred space where first-gen mujeres come together to heal, unlearn Calladita Culture®, and step into their full, authentic selves, without guilt or burnout.

Imagine this…

☕ You wake up and feel peace instead of pressure.

🌿 You navigate life’s challenges with confidence and clarity, without second-guessing yourself.

✨ You finally feel worthy of rest, joy, and abundance, and you’re surrounded by women who remind you of it every day.

Gather Circle is your space to:

✅ Release the guilt and pressure of being “the strong one”

✅ Learn how to regulate your nervous system and feel grounded

✅ Connect with other first-gen mujeres who just get it

✅ Unlearn Calladita Culture® and reclaim your voice, power, and worth

Right now, you’re feeling stuck…

You want to heal, set boundaries, and put yourself first, however…

❌ You still feel guilty taking up space or saying “no”

❌ You don’t have a safe space to process your emotions

❌ You start strong with self-care but then get overwhelmed or inconsistent

❌ You’re exhausted from carrying it all on your own

That’s why I created Gather Circle.

Frankly, I was there. I’ve also seen first-gen mujeres break free from guilt, self-doubt, and exhaustion when they have the right support, and now, I want that for you too.

What’s Inside Gather Circle?

  • Get instant support, motivation, and tapping sequences to help you regulate your nervous system anytime, anywhere.

  • Join our healing circles, tapping sessions, and energy clearings to stay grounded and supported.

  • A private space to connect with like-minded mujeres, share wins, and receive guidance.

  • Align your goals with your energy, the seasons, and your own inner rhythms.

  • A growing collection of trainings, meditations, tapping sequences, and more to support your healing journey.

  • A welcome gift of ceremonial cacao to help you build a grounding ritual from the start!

Why Join Now?

Healing doesn’t have to be something you do alone.

📅 Start now, and in just a few months, you’ll:

✅ Feel more connected to yourself and your intuition

✅ Set boundaries with ease (without over-explaining or guilt)

✅ Be part of a supportive community that truly understands you

6 months from now, you’ll look back and wish you started today.

“Being part of this space has been life-changing. I finally feel like I have permission to slow down, rest, and grow in a way that feels aligned.” – M

“Being part of this space has been life-changing. I finally feel like I have permission to slow down, rest, and grow in a way that feels aligned.” – M

“Pam’s guidance is like a warm hug and a wake-up call at the same time. The support in this community is priceless.” – V

“Pam’s guidance is like a warm hug and a wake-up call at the same time. The support in this community is priceless.” – V

“For the first time, I don’t feel alone in my healing journey. This community gets me.” – J

“For the first time, I don’t feel alone in my healing journey. This community gets me.” – J

Pricing

Gather Circle is designed to be accessible and sustainable for our community. This is a self-selecting scale. I trust you to locate yourself in a place that feels aligned for our exchange.

For semilla we will open up spots as Blossom and Harvest tiers fill up, this is to ensure revenue stability happens in my business so everyone is resourced.

🌱 Semilla Tier
$120 annual or $10/month

A limited number of spots available for those who need financial accessibility.

This might be a good range for you:

🔹 Have very limited expendable income.

🔹 Have debt or student loans.

🔹 Rarely buy non-essential items.

🔹 Are unable to go on vacation.

🌿 Blossom Tier
$300 annual or $25/month

Full access to Gather Circle benefits. A balanced option for sustainability.

This might be a good range for you:

🔹 Meet your basic needs.

🔹 Have some debt or student loans.

🔹 Have some expendable income.

🔹 Can take time off or vacation.

🌾 Harvest Tier
$600 annual or $50/month

Full access to Gather Circle benefits plus a welcome gift with ceremonial cacao to enhance your experience.

This might be a good range for you:

🔹 Comfortably meet your basic needs.

🔹 Have access to savings.

🔹 Can go on vacations and take time off

🔹 Feels good paying it forward so others have access to this work.

👉🏼 All members receive the same core benefits—the sliding scale is here to make it work for you!

Meet Your Guide

Hola! I’m Pam! founder of Cafe con Pam and a guide for first-gen mujeres navigating healing, nervous system regulation, and unlearning Calladita Culture®.

I created Gather Circle because I know firsthand what it feels like to carry the weight of expectations, to feel like you have to do everything alone, and to struggle with guilt when putting yourself first.

This space is for you to:

🌱 Feel supported in your growth

🌱 Reconnect with your inner niña

🌱 Learn to move through life with intention and ease

You deserve a community that nurtures you back. Join us inside Gather Circle! I can’t wait to see you inside.

How do I know if I’m ready to Gather?

This space is for you if:

✅ You’ve been the “strong one” for so long, but now you’re ready to receive support instead of always giving it.

✅ You struggle with guilt and over-explaining when setting boundaries, and you want to break free from that pattern.

✅ You’re actively unlearning Calladita Culture® and working through wounds related to silence, power, identity, worth, and commitment.

✅ You want a gentle, supportive community that doesn’t force productivity but honors your natural energy cycles.

✅ You love the idea of healing with the seasons, working with the rhythms of nature instead of forcing a linear path.

✅ You want nervous system regulation tools like tapping, energy work, and mindful planning to help you navigate life with more ease.

✅ You crave authentic connection with other first-gen mujeres who just get it, no code-switching required.

✅ You’re committed to your own personal growth and understand that healing takes time, not quick fixes.

This Space is NOT for you if:

❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or a one-time course, this is an ongoing practice of healing and integration.

❌ You’re not open to challenging cultural narratives around rest, worthiness, and self-care.

❌ You want 1:1 coaching, Gather is a community-centered space, not an individualized program.

❌ You’re looking for a rigid, structured program, this space follows seasons and cycles, not a linear step-by-step path.

❌ You are unwilling to respect the group’s boundaries and values, this is a supportive space, not a place for debate or unsolicited advice.

❌ You are unable to commit to at least one full season (3 months) of participation, Gather is an annual pass, and we encourage deep engagement.

The As to your Qs

  • Kind of, this is a co-created community with tools, practices, and live sessions to support your healing journey and your nervous system. While we do coaching during office hours, I call it a circle because we work together, but the majority of the work is done on your own. I believe you can be supported both in community and from within.

  • Pam will be inside the community leading live sessions and office hours, but this is not a 1:1 coaching program. Though there are options to get access to 1:1 support if needed.

  • No worries! You’ll also have access to Pam in Your Pocket for ongoing asynchronous support. You can still ask questions and send messages to get support.

  • This is an annual pass with flexible payment plans for you. Gather Circle is a 12-month commitment designed to support you through a full year of healing, growth, and community.
    While we offer flexible monthly payment options, this is not a month-to-month membership. By joining, you’re committing to a full year of being in this space, because true transformation takes time.

    • You can pay in full or split your annual membership into monthly payments for ease.

    • If you choose the monthly payment plan, you are still committing to a full 12 months.

    • If you need to cancel before the 12 months are complete, a $75 cancellation fee will apply to honor the commitment of this space.

  • Gather Circle is intentionally designed as an annual program to create a safe, stable, and engaged community. Your membership supports not just your own growth, but also the collective experience of everyone inside.

    We ask that you honor your commitment to yourself and the group, knowing that this space is here to hold and support you throughout the year.

  • Unlike traditional programs that follow the Gregorian calendar, Gather Circle aligns with nature’s rhythms, because healing and transformation happen in cycles, not rigid timelines.

    Gather is a journey. This seasonal approach ensures that:

    • You enter the space with intention, alongside others on the same path.

    • We honor your natural energy cycles, instead of forcing productivity year-round.

    • You receive the right support at the right time, so you don’t feel rushed in your growth.

    🌀 Healing isn’t linear, it’s cyclical. Gather Circle honors that truth.

  • Lovely, we want to answer them, please send all your questions to pam@cafeconpam.com